They put me up every week for years, when I was commuting to Kansas City for seminary. They hugged me tight and expressed admiration for my courage when I was trying to be brave after a miscarriage. They go out of their way to come by when they are in town, even when they are booked tight for holidays. They keep an open home and open hearts, not just for my husband and me, but also for our girls. From braving the heat to spend an afternoon at the petting zoo with me and the kids, to coming up with the wildest array of kid friendly meal options every time we come to town; they show by deed as much as word that we matter to them.
We visited my husband’s aunt and uncle on our way through town twice this week. My daughters pitched a fit when we wanted to take them out for breakfast, because they love so much sitting around their table, eating strawberries, and chatting through the morning. I can see why – it is a lot of fun to visit with people so well-read and thoughtful; always giving us something new to think about before we hit the road to head home.
It is such a privilege to share our marriage year with a couple who live out such a true expression of mutual submission and boundless love. I grieve that they didn’t know each other soon enough in life, because their kids would be amazing people, but I’m grateful to God for giving them such a bounty of love to share with the rest of us! We are, indeed, related by something much more than just marriage.
Jesus and the people he makes holy all belong to the same family. That is why he isn’t ashamed to call them his brothers and sisters. Hebrews 2:11